How To Prevent Rejection - 3 Easy Dating Tips - How To Turn a No Into a Yes

Have you ever tried to ask someone out, but always get rejected or you have to climb a big mountain to do it? Or you have difficulty getting a girl to do a activity that you like, but you are confronted with an attitude issue? Have you ever been frustrated and never have a decision go your way or it’s always up to her to decide what to do? If you are fed up at always getting a no, here are 3 easy and effective tips to turn a no into a yes.

1.       When asking someone for a date or want them to do something that you want, use the word “invite”. That is, you have to say it in a way that makes it a “good experience” for the both of you or just her. For example, “Dear Maria, I would like to invite you out for a movie with just you and me”. Or, “I want to invite you to a special game of bowling.” Questioning in this way will make the person show that they empowered and feel that they are special. This will also give the person self-confidence as they are being given special attention.

2.       If a girl is being resistive and just keep saying no, use the keyword “offer”. When someone is upset or emotional, they are feeling that they are not being listened to. To show that you are listening to them, “offer” them something. For instance, “Maria, may I offer you the suggestion that we go for a fun game of bowling?” Or, “Maria, may I offer that we go out and have a comfortable coffee at that arcade?” Practically what you are doing is giving them the idea that they won a prize for you listening to them.

3.       If the above does not work, give them 2 choices. For instance, “Today, is it going to be going to the movies or going bowling?” Don’t let them decide the choice, you have to give them 2 choices. Basically you are controlling where to go/what to do. If you let them decide the 2 choices, you basically have lost, because you are letting them decide what to do. Girls will respect you more if you give them 2 choices because it shows you are leading. Once you have given the choice and they decide upon it, always stick to their decision. What you are showing is respect and trust to the girl. Even if the decision does not go your way, the next time you are in the same position, you have more leverage to decide what to do. This is because you have shown that you are a leader who leads.